Friday, September 15, 2023

Friday Smiles2023 #Week 37

Thank you all for patiently ploughing through my post last week. Today I am covering the rest of my holiday (partly for your entertanment and partly as a reminder for me so that I can scrapbook it later), but to keep it a reasonable length I have made several collages of my photos. I hope you can click on each one to see the individual pictures.

I mentioned last week that the Saturday after we arrived was a special family day held at our son's vicarage. The weather was not at its best but we had two marqueés to sit under, plenty of warm wraps, and to the side the barbeque was lit so we had warm food to keep us going. It was wonderful to have all five of our sons together as well as most of their partners and children. The array of drinks on the table are all soft drinks or 0% alcohol, but there were a few bottle of beer and wine consumed as well. Everyone had a great time catching up with those they hadn't seen for some time. The pink flamingos were evident in the candle glass and inflatable drinks cooler. One grandson couldn't be there but it was lovely to see Skye, Mike's third child, who was just moving to Brighton where they will be starting at university to study medicine. (They achieved superb A level results of three A*s and and an A, so maybe we will have a doctor in the family one day). Mike had celebrated his 50th birthday two weeks before this and in one picture you can see the family all enjoying watching him open the scrapbook I made for him, mostly with the old photos taken when he was young, that he has no didgital copies of. It was a super day and I am so glad we managed it.

So my last port of call was Manchester to visit son number 4, Jonathan, his wife Ella and their daughter, little Aisling. Manchester showed its usual weather, grey and wet! though we did have some sunny intervals and had one lovely afternoon in the garden. We also visited a couple of parks. At Bramhall Park we saw the impressive mansion though we could not go inside on that day, and Aisling had a fine time scattering the pot of oats she had brought to feed the ducks. At their more local park, which is a huge area of green fileds and trees, there is a play area with a high slide that 'Little Miss Independence' was well able to climb up without our help. I liked the mother-and-baby swing and she wore herself out running from one to the other. On the way home we stopped to see the animals. Aisling insisted on climbing the wet and slippery railings, but was adamant I shouldn't hold her, so I stood as close behind her as I could. In this collage you can see their dog Rudi who really is a gently giant and loved climbing up beside me to rest with me. Aisling is also showing off the little dress I took over for her. She is a mini image of her mum in this one.

Much earlier in my holiday, after visiting my sisters in Bournemouth, I went to see our second son, Mike. I only arranged to be with him for a long weekend, mainly because he has been partly wheelchair bound, or else dependent on crutches for some time, and was awaiting the date for his spinal surgery, so it was difficult to make plans. That said we did pack a lot into the few days I was there.

On my first afternoon, his partner Lucy drove us to the Osprey project in Dyfi Valley, N.Wales. Although the birds were a good distance from us, the round look-out tower had several telescopes focussed on their perch and what remained of their nest. I was pleased with the photo I took using my phone camera, through the telescope. 

Of course the centre had a much more powerful camera on them, and we had some close up views on their screens, both of the birds, (there were two, both this years chicks now fully fledged), and of the magpie cleaning up what was left of their nest.

The surroundings were beautiful and peaceful. This lake was home to a family of beavers, hence the basket weave statue of one, but as they were mainly active only at night, we watched a film of their antics taken with a night vision camera. The boardwalk we followed had a black edge, and warmed by the sun it had hundreds of tiny lizards basking on it. I have inserted a small photo of one of the birds we had watched circling in from the hills miles away. I took this with my phone on full zoom so it is a bit wobbly but it does show their huge wingspan.

After the osprey centre we drove on to the coast to Aberdovy, so the boys could have a quick dip in the sea!

On Saturday, Lucy and her boys had other plans so Mike and I took a bus to Welshpool and walked through the deer park to Powys castle. We only wanted to see the grounds which are really stunning. The castle is famous for its trimmed trees, not exactly topiary as they were not trimmed to any shape, but they were mounds and mounds of green that looked like velvet. I saw on the internet this week that it takes a man eight weeks to trim them from a high crane. The flowers were lovely too as were the views of the castle from the gardens below.

We got home in time to have a brief rest and then caught another bus in the opposite direction, this time going to Oswestry. This was my home town and I enjoyed having a look around it, and seeing all the changes that have happened in the fifteen years since I left. However we were there to see the hot air balloon festival. It took place in Cae Glas park. This always has a great display of flowers in the front area and this year was no exception.

Behind the flowers there is a big open space of grass land where the balloons were. Sadly it was just too windy for the balloons to have lift off, but at 9.00pm they did manage to inflate five of them and use their fire blasters to give us a light show in time to the music. You don't realise just how big the balloons are until they inflate right in front of you, and it was a very exciting spectacle. I showed a couple of pictures at the time but here are some more.

Sunday was a special day for Mike and for me because he invited his family to come and have lunch with us, and they don't manage to get together very often. So Mike's daughter Emma, her husband and their three little boys were there, as well as her brother Mikey (the only one who couldn't make it to our family day earlier in the month). Unfortunately his partner had an accident that week and was not able to come. But there was Mike's partner and her two boys and Mike's younger son Fin so we were quite a crowd. Despite needing to lean on the table to balance, Mike was determined to cook his usual Sunday roast and I was only allowed to help with a little bit of the preparation. But he managed it and as you can see, we all enjoyed his hard work.

I didn't take many photos but I did manage to get an update of our four generations - baby Reuben, his mum Emma, her dad Mike, and his mum, me. I also got a quick one of Reuben sitting on my lap but he was much more interested in running round the garden with his brothers. He had only started to walk that week! (The cat on my lap is Bobby who came to live with my son Ben to keep him company when his partner died, but as Ben's life changed it became harder to give Bobby the care he needed so he moved to live with Mike where he has a brother and two dogs for company and he is well settled there now).

On Monday, Ben came to collect me and drove me to his house in Congleton, Cheshire (see last weeks post) and the next week we drove the short way across to Manchester for my stay with Jonathan. On one day both Jonathan and his wife had to work and Aisling was at nursery, so Ben came over again and we went to the nearby town of Altrincham. The market was more 'up-market' than I remember from a previous visit, but there was a nice cobbled street of shops which we enjoyed browsing and a lovely bakery where we bought fresh baked foccacia sandwiches for our lunch. We also went into a Sketchers shoe shop and both bought some expensive but very comfortable shoes! For a relatively small place the multi-storied car park was very full and we had to go up to the top floor. The view from there was amazing and we could see the skyline of Manchester city.

Ben then spent the night (part of it anyway) on Jonathan's sofa and at 4.00 in the morning he got me safely to Manchester airport for my flight home. I am so grateful to him for all the running around he did for me.

This picture shows me watching our flight arrive at Almeria airport for our trip out, and then off to get the return flight home. 

So my adventure is over for this year, but what a lot of lovely memories I made.

This week has been basically routine but I did have a nice outing yesterday. A friend at church organised a 'ladies tea' at her house and it was lovely to be able to relax and chat together as there is never much time for that after church on a Sunday. One of our friends needs a wheelchair so her husband drove her there and then acted as our 'maitre d', dressesd only in a pair of black boxer shorts, a red striped apron and a red bow tie! He kept us well supplied with food and drink throughout the afternoon. You can see him in one of the photos with his wife and our hostess Dawn. She gave us a lovely spread for our tea with fresh finger sandwiches, followed by scones with jam and cream, Then there was a wide choice of cakes - Dawn enjoys baking! - home make truffles, and finally a strawberry trifle. We were very spoiled and very full! She even made a plate of each selection gluten free for our friend.

And now I will close with two photos of the sky. The first was taken at teatime on Aberdovy beach in Wales on 17th August, and the second was sunrise here yesterday morning. Both beautiful in their own way.


So it is time now to link up with Annie's Friday Smiles, and I promise my posts will be back to much simpler things next week



Friday, September 8, 2023

Friday Smiles 2023 # Week 36

Hi everyone. I am so sorry I was AWOL again last week. I landed back in Spain on Thursday, but on Friday I was so busy unpacking, washing, shopping etc, that I quite forgot what day it was. I warn you this is a very long post, so just enjoy the pictures if it is too much reading!

However I have now sorted out some of the hundreds of photos I took in UK so today I am looking back on two of my visits, firstly to my eldest son in London, and then to my youngest son in Cheshire. Next week I will look more closely at the other places I went to.

We flew into Stansted and caught a train straight to son Jim's house in Sydenham.  This lovely sunset was seen from the train window.

We went to Jim and Jo's first as they live in a very large vicarage right next to St Bartholomew's church where Jim is the vicar. They are the only ones who can comfortably cope with all the 'tribe' decending on them, so on Saturday we had our Family Day. (I think we had 21 bodies sleeping over that night, but I will talk more about that another day).

They had nearly all gone home by Monday so Jim, our son Tom still over from Denmark, and I, set off for The Tate Modern to see the exhibition by Yayoi Kasuma. I mentioned this briefly a couple of posts back but here are two collages I made of the photos.


I wonder how many times you can see us in these pictures, and are you sure which ones are really us, and which are reflections going off into infinity?
In the coloured lights room, we only had a short narrow path, the width of a paving stone to walk on, and yet we seemed to be in a vast area. 

As Jim is a member of the Tate, we were able to go into the member's' lounge for a pot of tea which we took onto the patio outside, where we had a lovely view of the Thames and the magnificent London skyline.

At Christmas someone gave Jim a joke gift of a pink bird somewhere between a duck and a flamingo, which they call Flamin'duck. (I got corrected for calling it 'Flaming duck'!). I made a little amigorumi replica and now both go on all their outings (adventures) and manage to get into many of the photos. Here they are sitting together on our tea table.

We decided to walk along the Thames banks to the dock where we could catch the boat-taxi to Grenwich to eat some street food at the market there.  There is a theme in London this year around the figure of Morph. I am sure most of you remember the plasticine figure that morphed into different shapes and delighted the chidren  with his TV programme many years ago. Well there were statues of Morph all over the place and these two we passed on our walk by the Thames.

I am not sure I would like it on a daily basis, but I enjoyed the hustle and bustle all around us. The Hays Galleria was beautifully decorated, and I loved this old pub with its red paint and colourful baskets of flowers.(My son Tom, and one of my grandsons are walking together in this picture)


We also popped into Southwark Cathedral which is Jim's church comes under. On the path around it we found the stone for St Bartholomew.

We also met Hodge, the cathedral cat. (I said he should be called Podge. I think a lot of visitors feed him!) He wanders around the cathdral, including over and under the altar during services. Someone local has immortalised him in books, pictures and soft toys which are sold in the visitor's shop, and help to raise funds for the cathedral so that they can allow people to enjoy visiting it  for free. 

I saw this beautiful piece of embroidery hanging from a side altar  and these contrasting ancient and modern stained glass windows.


The next day was rather more grey but we took a train in the opposite direction to the little town of Rochester, to visit the cathedral there. I touched last time on the sewing exhibition there, but now I have made a collage of all twelve panels. I hope you can click on it to zoom in, so that you can appreciate all the threads and fabrics used.

But the cathedral had much more to offer than just the exhibition. In the centre of the nave was this huge Black Oak table, made for the coronation from one enormous branch of fallen oak that had been preserved in a peat bog for thousands aof years, and was found in perfect condition by archeologists. The table had been deeply polished and the wood just glowed. It was stunning.
I also appreciated these statues with the archway door in the centre...

this tile pattern on a section of floor...

and these beautiful windows.

At the end of the week, Jim and Jo saw me safely onto a train at the busy Waterloo station. Of course the Flamin'ducks came too.

The train took me to Bournemouth where I was met by my sister Jean, and we spent a lovely few days together. We have many common interests including card-making and crochet, so there was plenty to talk about.
We had a nice day out at Hobbycraft and the neighbouring garden centre where we both treated ourselves to new clothes and handbags, plus a big bowl of delicious soup for our lunch.
I went to see the new extension her daughter and son-in-law have added to their bungalow, and I met Jean's grand-daughter and her five little girls plus their cousin! They help to even out the score with all my boys.
We spent a day with our other sister who lives near-by. At eighty-eight she still lives alone and is looking remarkabley well. It was lovely to have time to really chat together.
Soon I was back on the train again, for the long journey up to Manchester where I was met by my son Ben. His partner Ant is a keen gardener and their beds were filled with flowers of all colours and varieties. He did particularly well with his dahlia's, which seem to have done well everywhere this year. Here are just some of the photos I took in his garden.
While staying at Ben's we did some more retail therapy at a huge M&S sale, which I wasn't expecting.
We also had a visit from two of his school friends' wives and their little children. After lunch we took the little ones to fed the animals at the local farm complex. Tilly liked the goats but Lenny just loved the donkeys and Shetland ponies.
We also had a lovely day out at Bridgemere Garden World. I used to take my boys there when they were little because there was a glass tunnel covering a tropical area with exotic plants and big pools of tropical fish. It has been taken over by a different group now and the tropical part has gone but there was lots to see, including formal gardens three of which won medals at the Chelsea Flower Show. We had a lovely walk around and I have made a scrapbook page of some of the photos I took, including the three gardens  --  The Womens'Institute cottage garden, The Forge, and the Old Potting Shed,  --  and a collage of all the beautiful dahlias that were in bloom.
Of course there were also several well know brands of retailers there so we both parted with some more money, but it was well worth the visit.
Then Ant took this picture of Ben and I as were went to the car to travel to my next destination.
Cogratulations to anyone who is still with me after that marathon.Next week I will show the rest of my visit but that is quite enough for one week.
This week has flown by. We had the good news last night that son Mike had had his long-awaited spinal surgery and today he has been up and is expecting to be back home by tomorrow. I had very similar surgery nearly forty years ago and had to stay in hospital at least ten days until I had my stitches out. How times have changed!
We have had an anxious week with little Leo who stopped eating and was losing weight fast. This was extra worrying as he was only gaining very slowly anyway. The vet found he had an infection which is being treated with antibiotics and he is now eating well again but not gaining any weight. A blood test has shown he is very anaemic so he now has more tablets to take every day, and in ten days time they will test him again. I hope he starts to pick up soon.
But for now I will link up with Annie's Friday Smiles and make sure I visit everyone to make up for all the weeks I have mssed.