Friday, May 13, 2022

Friday Smiles 2022: Week 19

It is hard to believe I have been home for over a week already, and yet my holiday already seems a long time ago.
It has been a week of ups and downs and I haven't managed to do much sorting out yet, so I will stick with photos from this week. This is my favourite time of year temperature wise, and it has been lovely to sit, each afternoon, out on the porch enjoying the gentle sunshine. Another few weeks and I'll be complaining that I am too hot.

On Monday we decided to go out around teatime for a walk along the sea front at Garrucha. It is not really the tourist season yet, but there were a few early holiday makers out for an evening stroll. The local walkers would be arriving an hour or two later, just as we were going home! Not all the bars have reopened yet, but we found one that was, just by the marina and sat for a while so Chris could enjoy a glass of wine and me my first 'tinto verano' or 'summer wine' of the season.

Then we walked along the beach front at Garrucha and when we came to a new boardwalk, we went down to the sea and dipped our toes in. It was not as cold as I was expecting, but the walking was quite heavy going as we were sinking into soft gravel with each step. It gave our feet a good massage!

At one point we heard a lot of noise and looking up we found a patch of sky was filled with seagulls. We couldn't see what they were after and we were a distance from the fishing port by then, so maybe one of the restaurants put their fish scraps up on the roof terrace for them. They were certainly making quite a din about something.

On our way back to the car we walked on the lower road which runs alongside the harbour. The fishing boats come in early each morning  and when their catch has been auctioned, the men spread their nets on the docks to dry. The man in red, sitting down is hand mending holes in his nets. There is a timelessness to the scene, which has changed very little over the last few decades.

On our way home we stopped off at the campsite for a plate of chips to share. It was a good ending to a nice little outing.

This part of Spain actually had more rain than I had in UK while I was away, and the garden is very grateful. This orange hibiscus usually only manages one poor flower at a time, and this week it had four beautiful blooms on it.

And this bright pink kalenchoe was all but dead and had been discarded at the end of last year, but the rain has given it a new lease of life, and just look at all those flowers on it.

One of my great successes is this pretty little purple daisy. I bought one very small piece in a little pot when I visited the catus garden in Nijar about three years ago. At the time the man stopped me buying two pots as he said this little one would cover a square metre in a year, and he was not wrong. The original piece soon filled a big container and spilled all down the sides and on down the front porch steps. Since then I have broken off pieces and planted them around the climbing rose tower, in the window boxes and in another pot on the ground, and all have grown really well. This week they are all in flower. Here are just some of them making a curtain of flowers in the front garden. I had to grab this photo just as the sun moved off them as their colour shows better in light shade, but soon after the sun has moved away, the flowers close up and sleep until the sun shines again the next day.


Some of the lows this week have been the health of our two lovely dogs. It is sad that although there is four years between them, they both have serious issues at the same time. We think Kim is a German Shepherd/Mastine cross, and his problem is very common in dogs of his size and breed; He has severe arthritis in his back legs. Some days, today being one of them, he has real difficulty getting to his feet, and it doesn't help that we have fairly smooth tiles on the porch so he can't get much grip. But we lay mats and blankets down to help him, but he doesn't actually like us to try and lift him and it is hard to watch him struggle. It doesn't help that he is overweight, partly due to his inability to exercise, so he is on a fairly strict diet, and I am hoping that if we can get some weight off him, then we can take him on short walks again. Today he went to the groomers and he came home looking all fluffy like a big bear, and smelling sweeter too. We had asked her to clip his claws but she didn't think they needed much off, but they have all the hair trimmed off around them and his back end is short and tidy too, so he is a very handsome boy tonight. The vet has offered to give him a monthly injection which may or may not help his legs, but it is very expensive, so for now we are trying jpoint care chews and today we bought special food for senior dogs with mobility issues. At 9½ years old he is not that senior, but I know his life expectancy is shorter than for some smaller breeds.

Foxy on the other hand is now 13 years old, and we know she is near the end of her life. We have known about her problem for some time as it has been many months since she consistantly ate proper meals, but of late she has got a lot worse, sometimes going for several days without eating at all. So last week the vet gave her an X-ray and confirmed what we already sort of knew, that she has a large mass in her abdomen that is now growing rapidly and compressing all her other organs. It is not treatable and she is on palliative care, but she swings from really good days to really bad ones. From last Thursday until Tuesday she was up and wagging her tail in the mornings, she followed us outside, and ate the puréed chicken rice and carrots I have been making for her. Then yesterday she couldn't stand up, wouldn't look at any food and just lay on her bed all day. We weren't sure what we would find this morning, but there she was quite perky again. So far she has not shown any signs of pain or distress, but we have both agreed that as soon as she does it will be time to let her go. It is a case of taking each day at a time, but she has given us a lot of pleasure over the past thirteen years, and I think we have given her a good and happy life too. (We keep moving her onto her nice soft bed but she moves back onto the bare tiles!)

I don't want to end on a sad note, so here are a few more things we have managed to acheive. We have cleared the corner of the garden that we want to remodel. Tired of waiting for the man who told us he would do the work back before Christmas, we decided to simplify the plans and do what we could ourselves. So today we ordered new garden furniture, and finished washing down the barbeque which we have ordered a new cover for, found new homes for some large pieces of machinery that needed moving, and visited several garden centres to decide which planters etc we would buy. Next Chris will dismantle the lean-to shelter that housed all the above items, and get the walls painted. I am excited to see the plans coming together.

I was getting withdrawal symptoms from family time, so this afternoon I had long video calls with my sister Jean and son Ben. Happy days!

Now to link with Annie's Friday Smiles ready to publish in the morning.

8 comments:

kiwimeskreations said...

Oh Kate, it is so sad when our pets age and start to live in less than optimal health - you have my sympathy.
Love that purple daisy, and it certainly was a great investment!
I look forward to photos of your remodelling project!
Glad to hear you have managed some family time, albeit via the internet.
Blessings
Maxine

Felix the Crafty Cat said...

Sadly holidays are like that, it used to be worse when we were working as I would be thinking about lesson plans on the way home on the plane. Still you have a lovely place to go back to. Sadly there will come a time when you know it's time for your lovely pets to leave and we have to do the right thing by them but you can be sure that you've given them the best life you could. Have a lovely weekend. Sending hugs, Angela xXx

Anonymous said...

Friday is about sharing smiles but it’s so good to know we can also share the struggles in life. I’ve been making 3 Memory dogs in memory of a 19year old fur baby that lost his life and know all to well how much these dogs are part of the family. I am sending you big hugs for this difficult time. I just know your animals have good lives with you.
Hugs,
Annie x

Lisca said...

I'm glad you have had such a lovely time with your family. We are back too. We've been away 5 weeks and came home last night. (Hence the late blogpost).
I'm so sorry to hear about Foxy and Kim's health problems. It's so sad, even when you know it's going to happen, it is a really sad time. As you say, you have given them a good life and have received so much love and faithfulness. I wish you strength and I know you will look after them extremely well for as long as it takes.
Lovely to see photos of Garrucha. Yes, the image of a fisherman mending his nets has probably not changed for millennia. After all the disciples were fishermen and they did the same.
I hope you have a good weekend,
Stay strong,
Hugs,
Lisca

Elizabeth said...

A lovely, informative post, Kate. The beach looks inviting - pity about the gravel but you had a nice trip out. And your flowers are gorgeous. So sorry to read about your beautiful dogs. My daughter's dog developed arthritis very young but she did enjoy a happy and long life with monthly injections to ease the pain. The saddest decision pet owners ever have to make is when to say goodbye. If only they lived as long as us. We are also making a few changes in our garden - it's that time of the year. Have a good week. Elizabeth x

Bleubeard and Elizabeth said...

This is my fourth time trying to leave a comment. I am having trouble with blogger today. That walk along the beach must have been invigorating. I would love to have a beach near me.


Sorry to read about Kim and Foxy. I hope this is a temporary setback for both, but I fear it is not.

I suspect that since the man didn't show up to do the work, this will not only save you money, it will be something the two of you can do together and at your own pace. You already have lovely plants and a beautiful garden area.

Have a super rest of the weekend, Kate.

Bleubeard and Elizabeth said...

I just read your comment about cilantro. Yesterday it was 105 F (40.56 C) and there was so much humidity, the "feels like" temperature was even higher. I think it will survive your hot summers as well as any cold you throw at it.

Celtic house said...

Your outing looks lovely and finishing off with some nice chips sounds ideal. Your plants are looking like they've loved the recent inclement weather and are positively thriving, I must admit that the rain overnight here woke me as we had the window open and it was bouncing it down. I'm sure the plants will be far happier for it though, so I shouldn't complain. Fingers crossed the rain isn't too bad later as we are out on a boat trip. I'm sorry to hear that you are having frequent trips to the vets it is the hardest part of having pets but they have provided you with lots of lovely times and they look like they have had a thoroughly enjoyable life. Fingers crossed that they remain on better days for the foreseeable future. Your plans for your garden sound lovely, you'll have to take before and after pictures and show us what you've done. I'm desperate to make a change on my stair case but hubby is slightly less enthusiastic at the moment.

Have a lovely week